Friday, September 26, 2008

A Visit

Mom's new bed was delivered yesterday. It's quite an interesting contraption; it has a remote that slowly raises and lowers it. This should be ideal for Mom. Tonight when I arrived the aides were putting Mom to bed. She decided, upon my arrival, that she wanted to get up so I helped get her dressed and then helped her swing her legs to the floor. She was able to stand up and transfer into her wheelchair with the help of two aides! I signed some paperwork which will allow a physical therapist to work with her starting on Monday. My hope is that they will be able to build up some of her strength so that she can stand and bear her own weight again. As I was leaving I met a daughter of one of the residents who told me that her mom has lived in this facility for 2 years. The care she receives is very good. It is always reassuring to hear from a resident's family. She also told me that I shouldn't feel guilty about putting Mom there. I just want Mom to have some happiness and enjoy herself.

5 comments:

cornbread hell said...

yes!
:)

Lily said...

No, don't feel guilty, you have done the best thing for your mum.

~Betsy said...

It sounds like your mom is beginning to settle into a routine. This will be soothing to both her and you. Hang in there.

nancy said...

i agree with betsy, it sounds like your mom is adjusting to her new home better than anticipated. i'm so happy for both of you!

rilera said...

I miss her so much and I'm still getting those twinges of guilt when I leave her. Then I remember that it has only been 3 days. And she's much safer and better cared for there.